The Dangers of Excess Frugality – Budgeting and Balanced Living

"Virtue, then, is a state of character concerned with choice, lying in a mean… Now it is a mean between two vices, that which depends on excess and that which depends on defect; and again it is a mean because the vices respectively fall short of or exceed what is right in both passions and actions, while virtue both finds and chooses that which is intermediate." Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics.

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The dangers of excess frugality – The slippery slope of budgeting

The first steps in budgeting are usually a real eye opener. For the first time income and expanse are laid bare before our eyes more often than not resulting in surprise and disbelief as to the proportion of expense relative to income, the volume of different expenses and usually the inadequacy of income.

A little later on the potential hits. As with any new endeavor a significant portion of the benefit can be taken advantage on early on. Potential savings and sources of money leaks are easily identified and several quick and significant measures can be taken to materially improve the family's financials.

Newly discovered personal finance enthusiasm usually leads, then, to further interest and reading which in turn leads to discovering the power of finance and compound interest. The affects of saving early are empowering and goals are set to allocate a more significant portion of the budget to saving.

Frugality often follows. Each expenditure is carefully weighted and considered against the future alternative benefit which, when compounded over time, amounts to hefty sums. Considerations such as "This $1,000 vacation has an alternative cost of $1,800 in 10 years using a 6% interest rate" are not uncommon.

Retirement planning takes up more and more of one's time as a result. Thoughts of early retirement are fascinating with seemingly small sacrifices made on the way. Slowly but surely present time is replaced with imagery of retiring at 40.

Without noticing money becomes the object rather than the means. "I only need so and so much more and I'm settled". The present soon is sacrificed for the future.

Sacrificing the present for the future

The real danger of the slippery slope presented is sacrificing the present for the future. The American public as a whole is in no real danger of this happening and the future has already been sacrificing several times over on the altar of consumption. Still, many personal finance enthusiasts quickly find themselves torn apart when it comes to spending money.

Frugality, in its moderate form, is probably a good trait. However, any excess (or deficiency), as Aristotle had so eloquently put, lead us away from virtue. Virtue or sense, in this case as well as others, lies in the middle.

Excess frugality will usually results in forgetting our original goals altogether, abandoning them to the accumulation of wealth with no real purpose. The inheritance will surely benefit the next generation but our lives are ours to live, not to pass on (again, reasonably).

The problem with sacrificing the presence for the future is the unavoidable frustration. Any extreme behavior takes its toll on the person as well on the surroundings. Being happy in such circumstances isn't easy.

I should note I obviously do not suggest sacrificing the future for the present. I am only recommending a more balanced approach.

How to achieve Balance?

Balance will be represented, in this case, by the ratio of saving to consumption. In economics permanent income suggests a person wishes to average out his or her income over one's lifetime in such a way as to not consume to much in the present or, on the other hand, consume too little (by saving too much – There is such a thing).

The rule of thumb suggests middle class households should consume 75% of their income. The rest will serve as either an emergency fund for non-expected expanses and big planned expanses (which can be expected as I've elaborated on in Budgeting for unexpected expenses) or as long term savings (equally weighted).

If you're consuming less than 60% of your income or over 85% than an evaluation of income vs. expense is in order. Some circumstantial aspects obviously exist as dual income families with no kids would present higher levels of savings while others may present less available funds for savings.

Still, the rule of thumb serves as an indicator that something may be off. In higher income levels the ratio of saving out of income is obviously higher while in lower income levels saving money is something one can only dream of.

To some the idea of spending when you can save may sound careless. I argue the good mental health and happiness include the satisfaction of everyday needs. Stoic willpower may enable one to retire early but what of the years past? Usually the best years in life.

The illusion of having compounding interest working for you

There's a reason why the 30's are considered the consumption era in one's life. Investing in education, raising a family, buying a house and other significant financial obligations put a damper on any attempt to really save for the long run.

True enough, saving throughout 20's and 30's will result in compounding interest working for us but who of us has managed to save significantly without sacrificing our present? Amassing a considerable amount of money requires many concessions, maybe too many.

The illusion of saving early is frustrating since saving at such an age is extremely difficult. For one's good mental health savings should be balanced with consumption. The 40's and 50's are considered periods of wealth accumulation and will serve the purpose of amassing wealth as well (considering you are not intent on retiring at 40 – another illusion of you ask me).

A more balanced life and balanced goals will help achieve inner peace and acceptance that money is truly a means and not an end. This takes work and time. I suppose on cannot escape the slippery slope I've presented but understanding the need for balance early on will save considerable frustration and contribute to early happiness.

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